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A Creature Of Habit

12/12/2017

 
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Nancy and I have been running together
on the same three days
for..um...22 years? 23? More?
​Long enough that 
though I  know we first shed our shoes,
for a block or so,
in 2010,
the doing is just...what we do.
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The rhythms of yarn-making are also so fully integrated 
that though I am trying to buy the odd skein these days
(there is such beautiful wool in the world, it's hard to resist),
yarn, to me, means handspun.
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As for color --same six dyes have been doing the job 
for decades now -- and I don't see that changing any time soon either.
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With such a habit driven life
​I've got to be super careful about introducing new things
(blogging, for instance),
because once I've carved out some dedicated time,
and trained myself for a bit,
before long
I can't not,
and the days  are a little shorter,
the weeks packed just a tiny bit tighter.
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But having a structure 
even a somewhat fluid one,
provides underlying balance,
so  the things I want to do,
generally get done
​and it feels good.
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Until they don't --and all at once there are  too many idea and no space in a day, or a week, for anything--  not only the things I already do but also the bliss of refreshing new things like learning tunes and getting better at drawing comics and writing up that pattern idea and making that thing for that special person and... and... and....
​
that bums me out.
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If its all working -- there is no need for lists.

And if I'm living on lists --
​It could be time for a major reassessment.
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​On the other hand,
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It could just be time to step out of the structure entirely.
Knit something easy, listen to an audiobook (yet another Jane Austen knockoff),
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And play a tune I already know,

Margaret
12/12/2017 02:20:28 pm

If only I had your discipline Sarah! I look at my wheel each day, I think about the spindles and I do manage to knit each day but I always feel they are an added luxury to the other needs of the day. My family constantly encourage me to do all of those creative things each day but my habits built over years of domestic/family duties always seem to yell 'Me First, Me first'.....Its harder where I am at the moment not having a dedicated space that takes me away from the main living/work space but its more my own discipline to do the necessary then turn to the 'other necessary' of creative useful pursuits. Thanks for the post. It has helped me think through it all again. Margaret

Mithra Ballesteros link
1/3/2018 08:09:18 am

Margaret, you echo my thoughts. So much to do but no solitude or space. I love my family and am grateful for its robust size. But it is like a patch of mint, increasing in size and demanding more real estate than I expected.

When will our families stop being our day jobs, robbing us of opportunities to become something beyond "mother"?

I'm exhausted and shocked that after twenty-five years of sacrifice, I'm still on call. Oh to be a child again.

Emily Ford
12/12/2017 03:29:50 pm

Love your story telling drawings! Have you considered a graphic novel? Ha ha--You probably don't have time!

Janet R Kovach
12/12/2017 03:40:24 pm

12.12.2017
COMPARTMENTALIZE.....that's the answer.....i learned that skill when I was 5 years old up in my room sewing pieces of fabric together to make a quilted purse, which at the time I thought was just wonderful....my Mother did no stitching and my quilting Grannies lived way over in Ohio. So my Mother would remind me constantly to go outside and play with the other kids (the other kids were not very creative in my opinion).....I'd grab a half hour stitching my little drawstring purse and then go run around outside for the next half hour to please my Mother.If we were putting on a play, I'd write the play and then assign the parts to the other kids. I found out early on to fit all kinds of creative sewing into parts of my day. I still maintain many activities today following the same plan to compartmentalize and satisfy creativity in smaller segments, not in defeating 3 hour time blocks which do not always materialize. At present I am weaving a tapestry portrait of myself at about age 6 or 7. I remember the dress color and the shiny hair ribbons in the b&w photo. Now i'm weaving from the bottom up, keeping Rebecca happy, and struggling over the skin shading. Sara, you make hanging heels and opposing thumbs and wild colored balls cavorting about look so easy...but I still wind up with yarns in the wrong sheds and have to figure my way out of it.Your tapestries with people and clothing and motion and rooms and books and music never fail to amaze me. Some printed out hang on my Fireside loom as I compartmentalize through my days.....from Janet on the right hand ocean coast.

Giuliana
12/12/2017 04:13:48 pm

Oops I left a message, but it has disappeared before I could click "submit" so apologies if this message appears twice.
I was saying that I find your blogs refreshing and encouraging and love your cartoons😊 and that I wish you a happy Christmas and a wonderful 2018!
Giuliana

Bonnie Klatt link
12/12/2017 05:45:52 pm

Let go. Be present. Flow in the grace of life.

Tina
12/12/2017 09:34:07 pm

What books are you listening to? I’m crazy about your sketches.

Leonie link
12/13/2017 04:06:52 am

Love seeing your new skirt in the comics. Merry Christmas!

Linda
12/13/2017 08:19:47 am

These sketches may me smile today.

Pru
12/13/2017 10:48:06 am

YOU ARE CHARMING. What a delight you are!

Louisa
12/13/2017 11:04:15 am

I adore your comics! I laughed through your whole post because I can so relate. (Especially the mystery dyestuff. Heh.) I want to do All The Things! But before I know it the day is done and I’ve only done a little. But that’s just fine. Life is not a race to the finish line anyway, right? Meanwhile, I can read and knit but I need to learn how to read and spin. What a useful skill!

Lynn
12/13/2017 12:57:44 pm

And yet, how do we resist adding the new and enticing? How the hell are we supposed to eat right and keep a relatively clean house and make a living and keep up with friends and sleep enough and read enough and pay enough but not too much (especially these days!) attention to the news and make music and take care of our corner of the earth and see many of the other corners and make all the yarn that needs to be made and weave all the cloth that needs to be woven? (I'm not going to even mention knitting. Or the 25-year-old quilting projects. Nope, I'm not.)

No wonder we're exhausted this time of year. How do we learn to say no?

grace
12/14/2017 07:41:57 pm

What are the 6 dyes that you use.?
And thank you for all the years of your lovelies !

Velma Bolyard
12/16/2017 05:25:31 am

i like the comics reassessing things. and i like the fluid lines flowing through this post. happy birthday.

Sandy watkins
12/18/2017 05:57:59 am

I absolutely adore your comic journaling style, and perspective. And i am so with you on the lists and trying to keep up and accomplish all the things! Especially this time of year. Happy holidays! And you really ought to put your journal together as a graphic novel. Its so fabulous! :)

Marilee H
12/16/2017 01:54:11 pm

Oh, my, this hits home. I'm sitting at my computer at the moment, with my RH Loom next to me, bounching back and forth between weaving, the 'puter and listening to a book [Magpie Murders... highly recommended].

Jodi link
12/30/2017 06:40:13 am

Andrew just saw your postcard on our mantel, so I showed him this blog post, which is one of my all time favorites. Especially your “reassessing” expression. 😄

Gisela Towner link
1/1/2018 10:16:24 am

Lovely artwork and writing!


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