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Sides to Middle and other Mending

3/5/2019

 
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Our house does not have a linen cupboard,
which means we only  have
one set of sheets at a time.
and on laundry day
​ they must go
off the bed,
into the washer,
onto the line,
and back onto the bed
before nightfall.
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My husband is also a restless sleeper,
and wears out our sheets 
at what seems a prodigious rate
so over the decades
we've been through
quite a few.
And of course this makes me sad
as, being a textile person,
I get attached.

Happily however, though the cloth gives way
in the middle of a sheet
there are still many useful bits 
around the edges.

I've sewn many into bags
for shipping tapestries,
and storing clean fleeces.
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Others, I've loved so much 
that I sewed them back together every which way
with bits of themselves or others
layer upon layer,
like so much flannel Boro
which can be used as an extra thick sheet
a funky quilt,
or even an indoor sleeping bag.
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Still others have reinforced
my favorite bathrobe
(my only bathrobe, actually),
which grows thicker by the year
as the yummy old cotton wears away,
like sand on a coastline,
and is subsequently replaced
with the rich edges
of the most recent sheets
whose centers have bitten the dust. 
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A few years ago I wondered
if actual linen linens
might last a little longer than cotton,
so splurged on two huge flat linen sheets,
on the theory that constant shifting
of bottom to top
and top to bottom 
and this side to that
might distribute the wear.
It seemed to work, for a while.
Certainly faithfully turning them 
has given me lots of good practice 
making tight hospital corners 
on whichever was acting as the bottom sheet.
But alas, even as they have grown
softer and more delicious,
the usual wear patterns still showed up
and the day before yesterday
as I hung them to dry from the beams of my studio,
I saw actual holes.
​Sigh.
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But wait!
I have scissors
and needles
and thread.
I have hands
and some bits of other linen
for patches.
Dammit -- I LOVE these sheets.
I can REBUILD THEM
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Sides-to-middling is a thing
I've only read about in novels --
 usually used as an adjective 
to describe genteel poverty
or excessive thriftiness
as in "she has sides-to-middle sheets."
It's not generally seen as a compliment. 
But somehow it always intrigued me.
And it seems straightforward enough.
So yesterday I cut the sheet down the center,
​(the one with actual holes),
began hemming and patching the new (worn) edges,
and later today (I hope)
​will stitch the previously unworn sides
​together to become the new middle.
​It won't be fancy,
But I hope it can go back on the bed.
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But my mending is rarely fancy.
There is no special thread
or elegant Sashiko stitching in this work.
Not that I'd mind if there were.
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I just know that if I set up such expectations
the mending would not happen,
so I rely on plain old running stitch,
the occasional backstitch to anchor it,
whatever thread that is at hand,
(quilting thread, embroidery floss, all purpose in some color).
and sometimes a patch
​ (fat quarters are fun)
on the inside or out
(or both for the butt of my jeans).
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The results, alas, are haphazard
since for me the point
is to extend the life of beloved
or particularly useful  clothing
so they (and I) can get back to work.
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Cuffs on a hand spun sweater I knit for my husband (Romney fleece), in the early 1990s --fourth or fifth cuff rebuild...
Not that mending isn't work.
Indeed, without me really noticing
​I find that it has become
an elemental component of my practice --
not only to extend the life of a handspun sweater
​or expensive sheets,
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but also to honor
​some perfectly replaceable leggings
​that just happen to have come in to my life
​and fit just right
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which makes them as valuable
as whatever spindle spun 
backstrap woven cloth
​I make while wearing them. 
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linsey-woolsey experiment
My mittens,
hand spun and knit by my dear friend Rochelle,
no longer look much like they did when she gave them to me,
but golly, it would have been hard 
to deal with all the snow this winter
​without the layers of yellow yarn
I hurriedly apply over the holes,
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as shovel-handle friction had its way
amidst the falling snow.
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But LOOK!
It's not snowing now.
And I've already showed you
way too many photos
​ of the underside
of my textile rich life.
So back we go to whatever it is we were doing.
My needle awaits.
​As does the bed.
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Pam Hutley
3/5/2019 11:30:51 am

Such a relevant post bringing back memories! My mother always mended sheets, 'side to middle' using a flat seem she sometimes sewed by hand. And work clothes were patches on patches, again sewed by hand at times. When one lives in an isolated/remote area as we did, 'needs must'! And I love linen sheets, mine are about 8 years in use, so far so good.

Sarah
3/5/2019 02:47:42 pm

Eight years! Pam. I'm envious. I don't think we even made three. And these were some hefty sheets. Dan called them "the exfoliating sheets." Maybe next time I'll buy six yards of Hemp summercloth and preemptively stitch the middle together myself...

Bethany Garner link
3/5/2019 01:17:06 pm

I loved this post ,Sarah... the "me too" memories of sleeping in mended sheets and rolling away from the seam when I could. Great to see that you are just like all of us and mend or salvage or accept things others find are useless, especially when they would fit right in with OUR lifestyle and neediness. I have a lining seam that just came undone inside my Hudson's Bay wool mitts that I love...off to MEND!

Sarah
3/5/2019 02:45:47 pm

I'll be curious to see how this feels. Perhaps i'll just use it as a top sheet for a while....

Deborah Pawle
3/5/2019 02:29:59 pm

Great post. Sides to middle and turning shirt collars, my Mum talks about doing that and darning socks. I have her darning mushroom though I must confess to not darning socks, my darning makes socks lumpy then I get blisters.

Sarah
3/5/2019 02:45:04 pm

I have the same trouble with socks. I'll reinforce the odd thin spot, and will duplicate stitch hand knit socks, but m quick and dirty mending does not lend itself too well to the friction of feet, alas. My friend Rochelle mends her wool socks with scraps of polar fleece. She says it is fast, effective and blister free, if not terribly attractive. But who is looking?

Jean Betts link
3/5/2019 02:33:53 pm

wonderful post, love the mittens. I now have 4 large boro quilts all handstitched using Japanese scraps, handwovens and shibori/indigo samples. I'm struggling to learn backstrap weaving after ordering "Backstrap Dialogues" - do you mind if I copy your linsey-woolsey idea? I haven't woven it in years.

Sarah
3/5/2019 02:41:48 pm

Oooh -- please do weave some linsey-woolsey and let me know what you do. My sample had two flax, two linen in the warp, and I tried a bunch of thigns for weft: two and two for houndstooth, all flax, all linen, combinations of linen sizes. Just finished drying and all feel wonderful. Truth to tell I'm looking forward to finishing my big mending project so i can get back to this one!

liz
3/6/2019 08:43:46 am

I don't understand. Flax is the plant/fiber and linen is the processed fiber. How do you have "two flax, two linen.." what's the difference?
Thanks

Sarah
3/6/2019 12:34:27 pm

Hi Liz — For some reason I can’t answer under your question so I hope you see this! The difference is nothing but nomenclature. In some places Flax becomes the linen the moment it is spun. In other places Flax becomes linen when it is woven. I can’t quite make up my mind as both make sense. In this case, since I was talking about Linsey-Wolsey, it made sense to use the word linen, but I like the word flax best, so slip it in there whenever possible. How’s that for inconsistent?

Lyn link
3/5/2019 02:54:57 pm

Your photographs are delicious, as always, but especially that final one with the threaded needle. Heaven.

Susan
3/5/2019 03:18:58 pm

Sarah, you are magical!
Enjoy your blogs immensely!

Heidi
3/5/2019 03:26:33 pm

1) I have been wanting to get linen sheets. Are they really worth the cost?
2) My sister just gave me a pair of mittens she knit for Christmas. While I have not done it yet, I plan to get some soft suede and add it to the palms and thumbs - where they ALWAYS wear out!

Sarah
3/6/2019 12:41:58 pm

2. Sewing some soft suade on the palms is a great idea. I have some buckskin overmits I often wear, but for some reason I keep forgetting to slip them on this winter!
1. Worth the cost? Totally a personal thing. Yes for me. I notice them with pleasure every time I slip into bed, and that is worth a lot. It is also my belief that I’ve slept better since I got them, but have no way to prove this. The cost is high, but less than most airline tickets (depending on where you are going and where you get the sheets), and since I hate flying and love sleeping in my own bed, I’ll Choose nice sheets every time. Also, if I weren’t sides-to-middling, I’d be making myself a pair of pants or a skirt/dress out of the good bits of these sheets, a thing I may do anyway when the next one bites teh dust! My husband, alas, refers to them as ‘the exfoliating sheets,”, which I think I mentioned somewhere else, so they are not everyone’s cup of tea.

Juliann
3/5/2019 03:55:01 pm

I immediately saw the term "genteel poverty". I grew up in a small Southern town. There were widowed or single older women that my mother called the "genteel poor". Everyone in town were always giving them food, baked goods, handmade gifts, and trips to the city. These women were often clerks, teachers, librarians, and some did ironing.

Sarah
3/6/2019 12:43:09 pm

That is so intersting — the backbone of a town —the spinsters and widows—thank you for sharing this.

Tracy Hudson link
3/5/2019 08:06:20 pm

Did you spin all that linen for the linsey-woolsey? Is that a dumb question?

Sarah
3/6/2019 12:45:29 pm

I did spin both the linen and the wool for this sample. I’ve woven a couple of others using linen that came to me from the stash of one of my beloved weaver friends when she died. Currently accessing cloth characteristics and weaving pleasure from the various combinations. So intersting.

Patti Kirch
3/5/2019 08:43:03 pm

A glimpse of what you do, are the treasures within those linen, paper, woolen & materials woven four selvedge houses. Mary Poppins carpet baggish, you know what's going on, thank you for inspiring and being practically perfect in every way!

Eileen Van B
3/5/2019 08:46:45 pm

I found a hole in the elbow of my favorite sweater (not hand made) but so ME. I was in the mid-west and didn't have the resources to mend it, but it is now the first thing on my mending pile. Love the mittens, too. Do that with socks all the time, So good to see the practical way of re-using or mending or 'up-cycle' of practical useful things. Love it!!

Sarah
3/6/2019 12:49:36 pm

Mend on, Eileen!

Barbara link
3/5/2019 08:58:37 pm

Ah, the memories. I never knew there was a name for what my mother did to mend sheets by cutting down the middle and sewing the side edges together. She used a french seam for smoothness. This was before no-iron sheets and we had a mangle in the basement in the laundry room. I loved stretching and folding the sheets, pulling on the corners diagonally, getting everything lined up - a two person job - and then feeding the folded sheets into the mangle for the magic to take place.

And you should see my gardening pants if you like patches. There are patches on the patches on the patches over the past 10 years - but they are just too comfortable to throw out. I see history whenever I wear them.

And I also was the designated mender for my son's pants and those of his friends in elementary school. No other parents owned a sewing machine or a stash of fabric to make interesting patches.

Good memories for one who was in genteel poverty at the time.

Sarah
3/6/2019 12:48:40 pm

I can just imagine those gardening pants and imagine I have a pair not unlike them, for nothing else will do.
Mending and making for others is an amazing thing, isnt’ it? To be the one who knows how and will do it — for affection, kindness, necessity or all three mixed up in various ways.
Thank you Barbara, for this.

Liz
3/6/2019 03:39:30 pm

Thank you, perfectly inconsistent makes perfect sense.

Adrienne
3/6/2019 05:12:03 pm

I wish I had known about sides-to-middling long ago. I do, however, greatly enjoy mending old knitted favorites and turning collars and cuffs on ancient cozy shirts. The occasional sock also gets darned. I have some sweaters I've re-knitted three times because I so love the yarn and want to see how it will like being a different shape. I always learn from your posts. Thank you

Ann
3/7/2019 06:47:38 am

This is such a beautiful post. I'm reminded of the Little House on the Prairie books and Ma's mending and sewing curtains from sheets. I often think in this time of abundance that we are missing the pleasure of mending and making do with want we have. I feel such satisfaction making my hand knit socks last, or when then do wear through completely I found I can reuse the yarn of the cuff which gets little wear, making them "last" a little longer as something else.


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